I don’t know what the secret to relationship success is after 50. But I do know, that by this age, we should be much more responsible with the hearts, minds, and souls of the people we interact with. Don’t waste anyone’s time, if you don’t want an exclusive relationship, then be honest so the other person can have a chance to back https://datingwebreviews.com/imeetzu-review/ out. And if they do want to back out, let them, don’t keep chasing them down as though you really want only them. Baggage is indeed a problem and so many men and women can’t put theirs aside to take a risk. I don’t want to be alone either, but I am worn out from trying to form a relationship with a nice man when I meet him.

I simply don’t want kids, and date someone in their 30’s or early 40’s would feel like I was raising a kid. I am a man 60 years old separated 8 months I’m looking for a woman in her mid to upper 50s I’m interested in dating my own age group. Lumping all women into one category is ignorant. I wasn’t the lying, cheating, spouse.

Something tells me there are millions of men like us. But the dating system is not built for us at this age. Talking about it together is a great step forward. Look for men’s groups to join in your area, or be bold and start one. At our age it is very possible to have health issues and I have a few of my own. I can understand if someone else does too.

Why are older men looking at women half their age?

And let’s remember, we have to have good qualities to offer men, too. So when women over 60 wonder why its hard to find a man THEY are at a bar drinking. Most men are not interested in seeing a Doctor to get that fixed.

I have lived in several areas and their are culture differences. I grew up close to the Canadian boarder in the US and came back years ago. Actually my last “girlfriend” was Canadian.

I’ll probably end up single and a bit lonely but so be it. I can’t force myself to be attracted to 50yr old woman if I’m not. Anonymous…….your sweeping generalizations don’t apply to me.

And I’m not timid, I have had relationships, just none that didn’t involve me having to change who I am to meet fantasy requirements of my partners, or I was simply being played. Still getting out among people, and still hoping for lightning to strike, but, to be honest, I’m pretty much over it. You can only take being beaten down for so long. I have found this thread very interesting. Any such a wide variety of comments.

Some people use this time of upheaval to get better like eating better or getting rid of what is not serving us. Now the other half decide to have a mid life crisis. They try to cling to their youth or they fill like they have missed out on something or they think that their spouse no longer is what they want. What they don’t realize it has less to do with their spouse but the fact they are not happy with themselves.

How common is it for an older woman to date a younger man?

Older women prefer when men flirt with them in a direct manner. However, you still have to be tactful about it and a little bit subtle. Showing maturity is a very important step of how to get a 50-year-old woman in bed. Also, while you’re approaching, be sure to keep strong eye contact. Don’t falter when she locks eyes with you.

And if you’re over the age of 40, the number one thing you can do to not look like the creepy old guy is to get into great physical shape. All those gripes above were about a woman’s attitude and mindset, and how that makes him feel. He never mentioned — not once — the issue of looks or body type. A man in his 50s is not looking for a woman to mother him. We want to be with women who are our partners, not our parents.

No thanks – once burned 20,000 times shy. I can’t play the games they want to play. And I am getting tired of sticking my neck out to be nice and approachable just to be rejected.